What does it mean to be pro-choice?

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You're in class, at a party, or having dinner with your friends and suddenly you find yourself in the middle of a debate about birth control, sex education, or abortion. Or you're speaking to students about Vox and you find that some of them are confused by or uncomfortable with the term "pro-choice." You know that you're pro-choice, but you're not sure how to explain what that means or how to defend your position to others.

So, what does it mean to be pro-choice? To be pro-choice is to believe that a woman has the right to decide for herself when and whether to have a child. It means believing that a woman can make that decision on her own, based on her personal beliefs, health, and life-circumstances, without government interference. And it means working toward a world where all women's reproductive options are legal, safe, and accessible.

Being pro-choice also means supporting responsible sexuality education and access to birth control so women and men have the tools to make and implement their own private decisions and take charge of their lives.

Does pro-choice mean pro-abortion?

No. Pro-choice means supporting access to all reproductive options -€” whether it's motherhood, contraception, abortion, or adoption — and supporting the right of all individuals to make their own personal decisions about when and whether to have a child.

If I believe abortion is wrong, does that make me anti-choice?

Not necessarily. Many who would not choose abortion for themselves are still pro-choice. They recognize that each person's situation is unique and that others may not share their religious and moral beliefs, viewpoints, or life experiences. And they understand the danger posed by laws that impose a single moral view on others.

If you believe that abortion is wrong for you, but respect the right of others to make that decision for themselves, then you are pro-choice.

Why do women have abortions?

Women who report having abortions generally give three reasons for doing so: three-quarters say that having a child would interfere with work, school, or other responsibilities. About two-thirds report that they cannot afford to have a child. Half do not want to be a single parent or are experiencing relationship problems with their husband or partner. And each year, about 14,000 women have abortions because they become pregnant as a result of rape or incest.

When do most abortions take place?

Nearly 90 percent of all abortions in the U.S. take place in the first trimester. Very few abortions (€”1.6 percent)€” are performed after 20 weeks and even fewer (.04 percent) are performed after 26 weeks. And at that stage, abortions are done in cases where it is necessary to save the life or health of the woman, including cases of severe fetal anomaly.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

thanks for listing this. Really, i have a lot of friends that are anti-choice at all costs and it is really hard to explain to them what its all about. I ususally just stick to "Listen, what if....." and hope it changes their minds, but i have cold hard facts now!![/i]

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

More people need to understand that being against abortion personally does not mean you have to force that on everyone else.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

More people do need to understand that. More people also need to understand the following: If I believe abortion is wrong, does that make me anti-choice? Not necessarily. Many who would not choose abortion for themselves are still pro-choice. They recognize that each person's situation is unique and that others may not share their religious and moral beliefs, viewpoints, or life experiences. And they understand the danger posed by laws that impose a single moral view on others. If you believe that abortion is wrong for you, but respect the right of others to make that decision for themselves, then you are pro-choice.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

Kryzif, that's not how we view it here, as the links provided for you in the other thread outline. We don't feel that it is necessary to say that "I'm prochoice but would not have an abortion," because that draws lines unnecessarily between women. Saying "I'm prochoice" is enough. Also, fyi to all, this is a prochoice board. Meaning, if you are "against abortion personally," this isn't the place to talk about it, and if you can't respect the fact that avoiding that kind of language is a rule at our boards, these may not be the best boards for you. Not to sound harsh, but it seems that a reminder would be good. To quote Julie's response in another thread about the "against abortion personally" thing: "The thing with saying "abortion is not for me, i wouldn't do it" is that it immediately begs the question of if there is something wrong with ME that i HAVE done it. it makes some of us run through our situations and wonder if our choice to abort was really valid, if other people can say point blank they'd never do it. does that make sense? i understand you don't mean it as a judgment, but women who have abortions get SO much judgment everywhere else, we try to keep girlmom as safe as possible. That doesn't mean you have to lie and say you would consider an abortion, but just saying, "I've decided not to have an abortion" or "I'm choosing to continue this pregnancy" is a great way to express your individual choice, along with respecting the women here who have chosen abortion. Most of us here have chosen not to have an abortion at one time or another, so we can understand the feeling of not wanting one this time around." It's not really up for debate.

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jen wrote:Kryzif, that's not how we view it here, as the links provided for you in the other thread outline. We don't feel that it is necessary to say that "I'm prochoice but would not have an abortion," because that draws lines unnecessarily between women. Saying "I'm prochoice" is enough. Also, fyi to all, this is a prochoice board. Meaning, if you are "against abortion personally," this isn't the place to talk about it, and if you can't respect the fact that avoiding that kind of language is a rule at our boards, these may not be the best boards for you. Not to sound harsh, but it seems that a reminder would be good. It's not really up for debate. Jen, this is kind of a non-issue with me. First off, let me express the fact that up until something that I read on this site I thought that I WAS pro-life, not neccesarily meaning that I was anti-choice. See, I feel that though abortion is not right for me, I do not pass judgement on someone else just because they may think that it's right for them. That's the point I was trying to make in the other forum and in this one. I did not know that was considered pro-choice until TODAY. Literally! I don't understand, if the topic is brought up, why you're not free to express your opinion as long as you respect the opinion of others and do not judge them. I'm not being argumentative, and I've actually found a lot of information on this site useful, which is why I'm opposed to leaving. If abortion is not up for discussion, it should be written out. I understand what you're saying, and I'm not trying to debate the fact that this should be a safe haven for women and they shouldn't have to feel judged. I'm not challenging that. I was simply stating that just because you wouldn't choose that for yourself, doesn't mean that you disrespect or place yourself above other women who have made that choice. I hope this clarifies.

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the reason why it is not up for discussion is this is a SAFE PLACE for girls/women who have had abortions. They (i am assuming, as i have never had one) probably dont want to come on here and have people saying things about the level of their pro-choiceness. It may be offensive to girls who see someone say that they would never have an abortion because they did and the person who says they would never have one is (even if they dont mean to) in a way judging someone who did. Does this make sense? IF you dont want to have an abortion dont have one, but it isnt necesary to advertise it on this site because we are supportive of ALL decisions, including abortion, adoption, parenting, etc.

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SkyKid45 wrote:the reason why it is not up for discussion is this is a SAFE PLACE for girls/women who have had abortions. They (i am assuming, as i have never had one) probably dont want to come on here and have people saying things about the level of their pro-choiceness. It may be offensive to girls who see someone say that they would never have an abortion because they did and the person who says they would never have one is (even if they dont mean to) in a way judging someone who did. Does this make sense? IF you dont want to have an abortion dont have one, but it isnt necesary to advertise it on this site because we are supportive of ALL decisions, including abortion, adoption, parenting, etc. Supportive of all decisions? So what if someone was pro-life? You wouldn't be supportive of that according to what the pro-choice policy is on this site. In saying that, I'm simply playing devil's advocate. I just want it realized that you're (and I'm not attacking you personally, I'm speaking of "you're" as in this site) not supportive of ALL decisions, only the ones that you agree with. I'm not saying anymore about abortion and pro-life/pro-choice. I feel that no matter what I say, it will be taken out of context.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

you took what i said the wrong way. We are supportive of all reproductive decisions, not the decision to be against abortion. This is a pro choice site. Period. If you are anti choice, then this is not a site for you.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

I'm not saying, and have never said that I am against a woman's right to choose what's best for her. In fact, I've stated completely the opposite.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

Exactly. Pro choice isn't accepting all choices that women make or all opinions that they have. It's being an advocate for women who need abortions, and fighting for every woman's right to have one.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

just to clarify i didnt mean you personally i meant you in general. You said that we are only supportive of decisions we agree with, and thats not true. Many topics can be debated in a productive way. However pro/anti choice is not one of those topics. Dont get me wrong i love to debate (maybe a little to much) but certain things are not up for debate. Like i said before, in trying to keep this area safe we dont debate about abortion, adoption, homosexuality etc. Sorry but thats just the way it is.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

naivete wrote:Pro choice isn't accepting all choices that women make or all opinions that they have. It's being an advocate for women who need abortions, and fighting for every woman's right to have one. Just curious where you got this information?

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SkyKid45 wrote:just to clarify i didnt mean you personally i meant you in general. You said that we are only supportive of decisions we agree with, and thats not true. Many topics can be debated in a productive way. However pro/anti choice is not one of those topics. Dont get me wrong i love to debate (maybe a little to much) but certain things are not up for debate. Like i said before, in trying to keep this area safe we dont debate about abortion, adoption, homosexuality etc. Sorry but thats just the way it is. That's more clarified. I'm not trying to debate, in any way about abortion. I know that this site is not open to the debate about pro-choice vs. pro-life or anti-choice. I'm not trying to debate that. I think for issues such as the ones you've listed above, that everyone has their own standpoint and it's more of a thing that you're set in your ways about. (you being again very general) So in that sense, I understand about what you're saying that it wouldn't be a productive debate. When it comes to abortion, it never is, because people usually feel one way about it, and aren't willing to change. Again, I wasn't trying to debate abortion in ANY way. So you're supportive of decisions that you DON'T agree with, but you just don't VOICE the fact that you have an opposing veiw on the topic? I just want to be sure I know how things are handled here.

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That's just how the majority of this site views pro choice. Pro choice doesn't extend into accepting the fact that your girl friend does drugs, or that this person is racist, those are choices, but that's not what pro choice is about. Pro choice is about abortion. Reproductive rights. No ifs, ands or buts, the term doesn't extend into other areas of life.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

naivete wrote:That's just how the majority of this site views pro choice. Pro choice doesn't extend into accepting the fact that your girl friend does drugs, or that this person is racist, those are choices, but that's not what pro choice is about. Pro choice is about abortion. Reproductive rights. No ifs, ands or buts, the term doesn't extend into other areas of life. I understand that it doesn't extend to other areas of life. Did I say that it did? I'm not being argumentative, I'm just wondering if I did say that. If I did, I certainly didn't mean to. The term Pro-Choice is used a lot in connection with abortion, but the meaning of the term is just that you are for the right of having the choice to choose, whether it be about anything. I know what you're saying that it is about abortion in connection with this site, I'm just saying that you should realize Pro-Choice is a term that can be used to describe ANY situation and is not limited to just abortion. I understand that in this discussion we are talking about Pro-Choice in terms of abortion.

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Quote:So you're supportive of decisions that you DON'T agree with, but you just don't VOICE the fact that you have an opposing veiw on the topic? I just want to be sure I know how things are handled here. There are some things you just don't voice here. Such as homophobia, racism, anti-choice sentiments, etc. There are other topics that you can respectfully disagree with, as long as you're not attacking the person for making that choice, such as circumcision, turning a car seat around too early, etc. As long as the disagreement is productive, there's no problem with it. If you're disagreeing with the action and have links/resources that show it's not a great action, or personal experience that shows it's not a great action, then by all means share it, it's a great opportunity for education. If you're coming in just to say "well that's a bad idea and you're a bad person for doing this", it's not productive, it's attacking, and generally not acceptable. As long as you understand that the hot topics aren't up for debate, that this site doesn't tolerate oppressive debates about rape, racism, homophobia, abortion, etc, and that the smaller topics CAN be up for debate as long as approached respectfully, then there's really no problem.

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word to what naivete said. imo, you dont have to agree with certain things personally just dont voice them on the site, again thats just imo

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SkyKid45 wrote:imo, you dont have to agree with certain things personally just dont voice them on the site, again thats just imo That's what I thought you were stating Sky. That's what I was asking, so thanks for clarifying. As far as naivete, I never debated the pro/anti-choice standpoint or abortion, as I am fully aware, and have stated more than once, that I know this topic is not up for debate.

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naivete wrote:Quote:If you're coming in just to say "well that's a bad idea and you're a bad person for doing this", it's not productive, it's attacking, and generally not acceptable. When did I say that it was a bad idea or that someone was a bad person for choosing abortion? I don't believe I did, but if I did, bring it to my attention and I will more than gladly leave. I'm sorry if I've offended you naivete. It seems you have an argument to everything that I say, and that's not what I was trying to do. I was simply trying to address some of the things other people have said. Again, if I've offended you please PM me because I certainly did not mean to do that.

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It's all talking GENERALLY. Like how you said in all your posts, a GENERAL you, not you you. I'm not saying you said that, I'm saying if someone DID approach it that way it would not be okay. This isn't all for your benefit either, it's being worded in a way that if others reading have the same questions, it might answer there's as well, which is why I tend to go a bit more in depth with my answers. It's not all directed at you. You asked what is acceptable, what wouldn't be, I answered. I didn't say you'd done all that, I know you haven't.

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naivete wrote:It's not all directed at you. You asked what is acceptable, what wouldn't be, I answered. I didn't say you'd done all that, I know you haven't. Okay. I just wanted to make sure I hadn't said something like that. Like I said, not trying to be argumentative, I was just trying to "feel it out" and see what the actual in practice guidlines were. I've read the site mission statement and what-not, I just wanted a little more clarification. Thanks to all for that.

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this is a good post. i have to constantly explain my views to pro-lifers, to clarify to them that pro-choice is not pro-abortion. i don't go up to pregnant women and tell them to abort. however, if a teenager posts on a messageboard about possibly being pregnant, i let her know she has three options. it's important to let women know that they have three options, no matter what.

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me too! but tell them that...no one listens! (and someone actualyl told me I was going to hell the other day Crying

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LovelyDemoness wrote:this is a good post. i have to constantly explain my views to pro-lifers, to clarify to them that pro-choice is not pro-abortion. i don't go up to pregnant women and tell them to abort. however, if a teenager posts on a messageboard about possibly being pregnant, i let her know she has three options. it's important to let women know that they have three options, no matter what. We use the word anti-choice about so-called "pro-lifers."

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

I didn't realize pro choice meant that we support all reproductive options...Go figure! Thanks for that info!!!!

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GABsMom wrote:I didn't realize pro choice meant that we support all reproductive options...Go figure! Thanks for that info!!!! maybe next time you could please read our mission statement. and a little more about pro-choice. ive been reading alot of your responses about being pro-choice and abortion and im really not liking the responses. IMO.

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i agree with kell you need to read carefully.

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

Gabsmom has been warned for all her various anti choice comments, If there is no apology/ I understand statement by this afternoon, she will be banned. I am sorry girls.

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adcaela wrote:Gabsmom has been warned for all her various anti choice comments, If there is no apology/ I understand statement by this afternoon, she will be banned. I am sorry girls. Thank you!

What does it mean to be pro-choice?

right on girl it our choice and our choice only

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