hey girls,
I am pregnant again. I havent' told adam. I just found out last night. I am not sure how i feel about this. I mean yes this is somethign that i have wanted but i also dont' want it. And i am scarde if i start to want it and tell somebody and start plaining i will lose it. I am not sleeping well, well i havn't been for the last couple of months. And when i say not sleeping well i mean not sleep so i have to talk pills for that which are Ambien and Gabtril. I am also on effexor XR for depression. Oh i had a question i am suppose to fly up to DC in a week or two. Would it be bad for me to fly when i am like 7, 8 weeks pregnant. I dont' know how all that works i just know that you aren't supposed to fly and i am not sure if that is through the whole thing or just the last tremster. I am not quite sure what to do. I feel like i am going crazy. I have all these worries attcking me at once. Adam and i just got a dog recently because of miscarriages. Ahhhhh i am going into a crazy panack. Wow i need to stop typing it is making it worse
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I know you were TTC, but I know you're scared of another miscarriage as well. You must be pretty nervous right now about it all, if you need to talk PM me. I hope things work out for you, whatever it turns out you want. It's okay to fly, you're only 'not supposed' to fly in your third trimester.
I know exactly how it feels to be scared of another miscarriage, I was pregnant before Aaiden and miscarried, it was scary and it hurt. And when I found out I was pregnant with Aaiden I was scared out of my mind, that I would miscarry again. Just relax and try not to worry (i know easier said then done) Flying is ok when you're in early stages of pregnancy, as Naivete said it's only not supposed to happen when you're on the 3rd trimester.
Good luck hunni!
I just wanted to let you know that I'm feeling exactly like you. I miscarried and am now six weeks into another pregnancy and terrified of losing it. I posted on this forum and someone replied to just relax and trust your body. That really helped me relax, but I know it doesn't fully relieve the fear. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and good luck!!
Well firstly congratulations!
Just because youve had a miscarriage before doesnt mean this one wont stick! lots of sticky babyglue coming your way*********************
Im TTC#1, with no luck for 4months :cry: i wouldnt fly, and also your on anti-depressents.Its very important that you come off these.Im surprised your doctor would let u TTC when your on these as they can damage your baby.
Get to your doc asap, because of the miscarriage(s) you will have an early scan.Goodluck xxx
There are several antidepressants that do not have any effect on the fetus.
About the fear of miscarriage... I'm 22 wks and I still fear it all the time. I really think it's normal for pregnant women to have worries about these kinds of things.
Have you gone to the doctor? Does the doctor know about your miscarriages? Did you have a D&C after your other miscarriages?
Sometimes a miscarriage is followed by other miscarriages because bacteria gathers in the uterus and affects the subsequent pregnancies, which is why a D&C is so important. I don't know for sure, and maybe one of the medical mamas can help, but maybe if your doctor prescribes you antibiotics, the chance of bacterial infection will decrease.
In any case, discuss your concerns with a doctor.
Good luck and congratulations.
i had a D&C with my first miscarriages but not with my others. I after they had happend i mentioned it to one of my doctors and she said since you have had normal periods after it you should be ok.