me and my dated for a year .. maybe even longer, we broke up because my older brother and 2 of my best friends thouqht that we were 2 attatched and i was too young, now that was when i was 13, im now going to be 16 on may 21 ;; only 3 days after our 2 year brake up ..
anyhow.. me and him have just became friends after not speaking to eachother for all this time, and me and my cousin went out with him and his friend and he kissed me, and one thing led to another, a few days later me and him hung out at his house ... i was testing him so i sat on the opposite side of the room to see what he would say, and just as i thought he asked me "why are you sitting over there" i then said " where would you like me to sit ?" [[ although there were a whole nother couch and all the rest of his couch open ]] he replied "where ever you want, but i didnt think youd sit there." so i got up and went to sit next to him ... we were watching tv and just chattin' when he kept callin me names to make me look at him, and as soon as i turned to look at him he kissed me, one thinq led to another and we ended up in his room, we had sex, and now everything feels weird between us, and hes not the type of person who can talk about thinqs like that, and i want to know how he feels, and what i should do, cause i cant wait anymore, im qoinq back into depression ...
-- kayLa
i need advice ...
does anyone want to help ?
hey there, I think the best thing would be to talk to him about his feelings. If you feel uncomfortable doing that, trying writing him a letter so you know what you're going to say. The only way to find out how he's feeling is to ask him.
Also, the mamas (and kidless allies) on here have lives outside of GM so when you're waiting for a reply, you'll have to be patient. I know it's hard when you're in a tough situation, but thanks for understanding.
Sorry you didnt get a response sooner, many of us are asleep at 2 am!
My first opinion is that you both need more effective communication. You were playing a game with him by sitting on the other side of the room, he called you names to get your attention and now you're afraid to discuss the feelings created by the situation.
I think the first step is to figure out a way to honestly communicate with this person. All relationships need communication and if you both knew how the other person felt without playing games or getting other people involved, you may both be alot happier with eachother.
Wait a few days to call him to clear your head. If he calls or visits you, talk to him and let him know how you feel.