I don't know if this really needed a trigger, but I put that on there to be on the safe side.
Anyway-ok so I have noticed that anytime a guy show any kind of interest in me, or if someone says to me,"so and so likes you", i immediately start fantasizing and dreaming about being married to him and having babies and living a fairy tale life. Its really annoying, and I can't make myself stop. Everytime a guy even TALKS to me, i think "oh maybe he's the one" and start daydreaming. I HATE this. I wish I could just have a normal crush, and have a normal healthy fling with someone. Every relationship I've been in is like me falling for them so hard that I lose myself in them, I can never just sit back and have fun and enjoy something that I know may not last. Everything has to be so serious to me.Every guy I get involved with is a potential life partner for me. I was wondering if any of you have this problem with relationships-or is it really a problem at all?? I am just so confused, and sick of having these super high standards for relationships that are inevitably gonna be let down. Maybe I am looking for Prince Charming, which is really repulsive to me, but I guess we cant control the way our mind works sometimes.
Anyway- a lot of babbling,and I hope it somewhat made sense. any thoughts on that??
I was JUST thinking about this myself. I always have to look so far into the future and imagine marrying the guy and all that stuff.I can never just enjoy Mr. "right now" it always has to be the right guy forever. I hate it. I don't know why we do it, but you're not alone!!
sorry i don't have a lot of time to write right now but i think that the daydreaming is definitely something a lot of people do...losing yourself in relationships may not be completely healthy, but i do recognize that sometimes feelings can be intense soon in a relationship.