Are there two different kinds of orgasms for girls? I know that there's one you get from rubbing your clit..but is there a different type of orgasm that you get from the inside? Do you know what I mean? I don't know how to explain it because obviously I'm not even sure if a second one exists. If it does I'm kinda pissed ..why doesn't my inside orgasm button work?! :shock:
i think you're talking about the g-spot orgasm?
the g-spot- fleshy button about a fingertips length inside your yoni.
and as for it not working...expereiment, girl!
i was never a fan of the g-spot but after some expereimenting between the clit and g-spot and other things, i found a way to make it work.
for some it's more intesne than the clitoral one.
for some it's quite a bit less.
for me it just intensifies the clitoral orgasm.
practice, expereiment, have fun with it, but don't stress over it, mama. it takes the fun out of it. :)
I've never used a vibrator, but could that help me find it? I'm not too fond of the whole fingering deal..It's tiring..
it was quite awhile before i was able to make the g-spot orgasm work. now it works all the time! for me and my girl it results in the whole female ejaculation thing you might have heard about. towels are definitely needed.
for me, g-spot orgasms are way more intense than clit orgasms and not something i can reproduce on my own through masturbation. generally that feeling you get like you have to pee when you're being penetrated...if you just go with it and let go, it'll happen. for me, i have to be with someone i'm comfortable with (aka my girlfriend), because it's so intense and i've been known to cry or be rendered speechless and immobile or blabber on about how much i love her afterwards. my clit orgasms are pretty fucking intense though, lasting several minutes, so i don't know if that's how they all work out for everyone. for me there's actually three orgasms, the upper clit one, the lower clit one, and the g-spot one. so yes, experiment! have fun! play around, see what happens! just make sure you're comfortable and okay with whatever's going on.
good luck! we had a thread about this once a while back and afterwards several women reported success with their inside orgasm buttons. :)
WORD to THAT.
also, yeah, agreeing on it's easier with someone else. i've tried and tried to work it out on my own and i get a hint of it, but i found it with my gf and it's the best with her.
a vibe might work, though. especially one of those fancy ones...i really don't know. i can't tell you what'll work for you, just to be patient, really concious of what you're feeling and go for it.
woo hoo so i have been on the right track! haha.
hmm...like, how high is the upper and how low is the lower?(i know it might be different for me, but still..a general idea) i dont think i've ever even looked for another...er..button after i found the first one. :shock:
sorry about the cluelessess...
umm. if i had to guess on the upper/lower clit orgasm, i would think:
stimulation on clitoral hood resulting in O for upper.
direct clit stimulation for lower O.
because there's only one clit..but i could be wrong.
whew...this is quite the question!
first I think it's important to note that not everyone has "g-spot orgasms." some don't even like the feeling of g-spot stimulation. Many women only have "g-spot orgasms" when they get clitoral stimulation as well.
personally, I don't distinguish between the two. rather the two types of stimulation (firm, repeated pressure on my g-spot and vibration or rubbing on my clit) are great partners in producing awesome orgasms.
I highly recommend exploring your g-spot, but I suggest that you keep an open mind and don't get frustrated if it doesn't make you come. Most women don't orgasm without some form or clitoral stimulation. However, many women are also able to stimulate the clitoris from within the vagina due to the way it extends inside the body. Also, many positions that allow for g-spot stimulation also result in friction against the clit, so you get a 2 in 1. :)
How do I get over being embarassed of my female ejaculation? I don't like making a big mess and how do I know that I'm not actually peeing. And the mattress is stained now... we'll be moving eventually, I don't want my parents/sister thinking we wet the bed when they help move the mattress.
You know you are not peeing because female ejaculation does not have the same smell as urine. If it smells like urine, it probably is.
Its hard to get over the pee feeling and let it go.So drop thinking about the mess and just let go.You will be glad you did!This site is so hott!
I have never liked my clit being stimulated for some reason. It kinda hurts to me, maybe I'm just weird, lol, I dunno. But ooooh the G-spot is my spot! It seriously does feel like your about to pee on yourself. Try experimenting in the shower and that way if you do pee, ha ha, there won't be a stain on your bed. Can anyone explain some sexual positions that stimulate the clit and g-spot at the same time? I find it's hard for a guy to hit my g-spot while inside me, but when he has his ingers in me it REALLY works great!
kyamo
"How do I get over being embarassed of my female ejaculation? I don't like making a big mess and how do I know that I'm not actually peeing. And the mattress is stained now... we'll be moving eventually, I don't want my parents/sister thinking we wet the bed when they help move the mattress."
I read somewhere about getting a plastic sheet for the bed. My kids have them from Target. I haven't ever done that though, because it's a turn off, frankly. When we moved, it was pretty embarrassing because our mattress was so stained, but we just tried to laugh it off.
I was nervous about the pee thing too. I didn't get comfortable with this until last summer, when Alli and I um, took a lover, hehe, who was very into watersports. A and I drank a lot that summer, and I'm fairly positive that at some point or another, ejaculation turned into drunken peeing. I realized it doesn't matter to me what it is, it's hot to be on either end of it!
But for non-drunken ejaculation, peeing before sex generally guards against any mishaps. You'll find that after a good fucking and ejaculation session, it's actually hard to pee! It's always good to pee after penetration to clear at the urinary tract to avoid infection.
I prefer finger penetration to toys (whereas Alli's the opposite), and she's marveled before at the way she can feel my g-spot fill up and then explode.
britt
"hmm...like, how high is the upper and how low is the lower?(i know it might be different for me, but still..a general idea) i dont think i've ever even looked for another...er..button after i found the first one.
sorry about the cluelessess..."
You know, it FEELS really different when either spot is being stimulated, but i know they must actually be really close (obviously, it's a small area!) i suppose the amount of nerves contribute to the perception that i have during sex of my pussy as this wide, vast landscape, heh. i think one is higher, like right at the top of the clit, and then the other is right at the point that the clit stops. but i could be wrong! i enjoy it, so i've never questioned it!
I tend to get a better orgasm from the g spot. So i like positions and foreplay that hits the spot :lol: I love my rampant rabbit though as it works both clit and G spot. :D