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Ok, I'm a little embarassed asking this LOL!

I usually use my fingers on the shower head to masturbate. It's getting borrrringgg. I can't bring a vibrator into this house, so do you have any at-home suggestions?

Also, I've been strictly clitoral. I want to expirement with my g-spot. My fingers don't reach. I want to try and get pleasure from there! Any tips, advice, at home suggestions?

Thanks girls!

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are you worried about the noise of a vibrator or it being found? If you want to get a vibrator, but are scared for some reason, I can offer suggestions for that (perhaps bathtub toys or descreet toys might be an option?)

Otherwise, I usually lie on my back and use my fingers to rub my clit, while using the other hand to alternately pull or push on the skin over my pubic bone, which changes the degree to which my clit is exposed, thereby offering different sensations. Often i like having a dildo (a non-vibrating toy) inside me because it gives me something to clench my muscles down on, which makes it easier to come.

As far as the g-spot, I can't get to mine with my own fingers. At least not in any positions that is comfortable enough to get off. I need to use a toy, preferably something really (really!) firm, with a curve or "L" shape. to the tip. Applying pressure towards the front wall of my cunt with a toy like that is the best way for me to do it by myself :)

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I'am crazy about my vib. the water works well also.Try putting a pillow under your lower back for a new angle on the up "cumming" event.Also try thinking of something sexy.Or send someone "dirty" e mails.I will accept!LOL

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hehe, you can send me a dirty email too :)

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me too i send them to my friend alicia we actually do it back and forth sometimes i have a pocket rocket so my parents wont find it and its quiet

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blueboymomma wrote:
i have a pocket rocket so my parents wont find it and its quiet

is that the same as a bullet? i looooove my bullet! im get horney thinging about it hahahahah. gotta go, hehe. :lol:

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yah its almost the same i think my rocket is for clitoral stimulation

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yeah I have to agree with emeraldfly, send me some as well.

On to another subject something I have done that is awesome and I don't think it will hurt me is i have taken a piece of ice and rubbed it over my clit then inserted it, while it was melting take the hand that you held the ice with (Due to the coldness) and play with your clit. It takes a little longer to get off but it is an awesome orgasm. Plus it is an awesome alternative to a vib.

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I had a rocket dealy, and it broke!!! I was soo sad.

At the sex store, they sold my boyfriend this really cool thing....it silicone, and it curves, and it attaches to your finger....it has bumps all along it...it wasnt expensive *im sorry, i forget what its called*, and its soo much better than the rocket!!!

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i know that it can get a little boring doing one thing...i sudgest that you do something new as well...when i first started experimenting with it it was with one of those massagers, it is meant for your shoulders, but w/e works. i just told my dad that i had some pain in my back and shoulders from my backpack, he got me one for that purpose, and it was solved! lol.
also, try it in a different place....the bathtub with candles is awesome, bed, chair, different positions...i am extreeemly flexable so i can be on the ground laying down with my knees next to my head (and my tush in the air), which is awesome. think about different thoughts, let your head go crazy! try lotions, just make sure that they are naturall....vaseline lotion, not the jelly is great... just if you are using a lotion that you are not sure about use a tiny dab, and if there is any discomfort then use that handy shower head to rinse it off and then try something else.
look at some Yoga books, and look at some of the funny positions that they are doing to strech....i have noticed that some of them create perfect angles to getting right where you want.
i have heard of ppl mastrubating with different things if they do not have a toy...i have heard of everything from a big sharpie to the end of a hair brush....just makesure...whatever you use that it is CLLLEEEANNN. oh and with the Yoga, make sure that you try them somewhere else other than in the bathtub...if it is wet (which i sure hope the bath would be) make sure that you dont fall over or something (i have done it before..LOL)....i think if you seriously hurt yourself it would be hard talking to your parents about falling over in the tub while trying to mastrubate...

i know that was long, but i hope it helps!
a REALLY good website is
talksexwithsue.com

it is an amazing site...(the boys that i have been with will agree from their experience :lol: :wink: )

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acrane, I have that thing!!! Mine is pink...It's pretty awesome. I like to use it with my SO...or in the shower when my roomate isn't home :P

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The thing Acrane is talking about is called the Fukuoku..I don't think anyone knows anymore about sex toys than I do lol..I want to work at a sex store SO bad! lol

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I haven had any action since I found out i'm pregnant send me e-mails too please, anyone

! Please???

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I'm 14 where can I get a bullet with out my parents finding out? I think masterbation is fun!

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i could've sworn i posted this site in this thread... but anyway, check it out

http://www.mymasturbation.com

it's all text-based, no popups, no porn... just real experiences and techniques. I check it out often to mix things up a bit...

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I hope this doesn't sound paranoid, but I just wanted to remind everyone that there have been members here who ended up not being who they said they were. These boards can be viewed by anyone, including disguised 50 year old men if they so chose. So I would say, just keep that in mind when posting explicit sexual information and emailing explicit sexual information to other people. You never know for sure who's reading it.

(It's the same reason the Looking Spot is locked - you never know if someone's creeping around looking for weird stuff to get off on)