Okay.. so I cant really "forgive AND forget" persay.. BUT.. okay about a month ago I made the decision to sort of bump her out of my life because she just brings ALL of us down.. I have a wonderful kick ass mother.. I dont need a second mom, and one that isn't that kick ass at that (i stopped talking to her after her telling me I was a bad mother for not letting her buy Xander a Raffi CD collection.. hmm I really dont think that constitutes name calling.. but in her world telling her sons to "fuck off" is normal volcaulary as well).. anyways she keeps sending me emails saying "im sorry!" "forgive me?" etc etc.. Im torn because it was nice talking to her ON OCCASSION.. but more then anything it was a hassle to deal with her BS all the time and her trying to run our lives.. i have to say its NICE not having her call 3+ times a day and just stopping by whene ever she feels like it.. but at the same time why am I feeling guilty?!