What to do, what to do. Bd and I broke it off recently. Or should I say, he broke it off. We were engaged to be married, but I'm too fat, and crazy you see. Or so he says. Well we have a long past of breaking up and getting back together, mainly because of the 3 cheating incidents, and two breakups which led him to another woman. Well three weeks ago, when he canned me, he found this girl named Megan. He was with her for three weeks, and decided she's not for him, and he wants to be with me again. I need advice on this. It's just very convienient, because he is leaving for the Navy on Monday, and knows he's going to have to pay child support. I just don't know what to do. I still love him, but if I go with him in three months, to wherever he is based, I will lose my family. If I stay, I lose him. And not to mention my family keeps telling me I could do better, and that I deserve better. So, mama's, what's your take?