well we didnt get back together, but we are talking again. it really seems like he is trying to turn his life around, but i can never be sure. I told him that if he really seems to be doing better, like gets a job and goes back to school and keeps up with his probation, and if he treats me with respect, we can get back together. So thats whats going on with us.
I hope everything works out and he does turn his life around.
im glad you have laid down the law... now he knows exaclty what to expect from you and his actions. good luck