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BD won't reinforce potty training with Chey

When Chey sees her dad every other weekend he won't reinforce potty training with her. He just puts a diaper on her and just changes her. He tells me its too much work to take her to the bathroom veery 30 minuets. What can I do so he will also train her while I'm not their. Thanks

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BD won't reinforce potty training with Chey

well its good hes changing her atleast, i remember before you got banned last time that you were having problems with him not changiong herr diaper at all and her getting diaper rash.

She just, JUST turned two she will get the hang of it.

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He is changing her but she is getting confused now that he put her in diapers when he has her. I don't want my prossgess with potty training to go to waste. I don't know what to do? Should I not let Chey see him until she is potty trained?

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heaven on earth wrote:
He is changing her but she is getting confused now that he put her in diapers when he has her. I don't want my prossgess with potty training to go to waste. I don't know what to do? Should I not let Chey see him until she is potty trained?

id ofcourse still let him see her.
He will eventually get tired of changing a 2yr olds shitty diaper ;)

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Porry training shoule be done because the child is ready, not because it's something that you can't wait for. I completely understand how nice it seems to never buy diapers again, etc., but you seem to be in a real hurry to train, and that is one of the biggest ways to delay it. Just relax and talk to her about it, and it will happen.

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I'm not in a hurry I just want to start becuase Chey was showing instrest but I think I pushed to hard and thats why she is not as instrested as before. I just don't want her to loose what she has learned, I'll stop pushing her but should I not put her in diapers but pull-ups(I know there almost the same). Thanks

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I had my son in pull-ups pretty early, because by the time he got to that size, they were actually cheaper than normal diapers. That, I think, got him used to the idea of underwear even though he didn't train for a long time after that. My son is 3.5 and he only trained at the beginning of this year. We didn't push, just let it happen and when it did it went really, really easily.

Charmin, the toilet paper company offers potty training kits (for free) from their website. It's worth checking out. Your library may also have some books or videos on the subject.

I don't really think that your daughter will regress, but at some point she'll just be ready, and I think you'll know it :)

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I found that the pull-ups are cheaper too. I'll just let have her let me know when she is ready and I will not push it. Thanks for the help.