Okay, this may sound kind of silly, but I was awake last night wondering about it. Is it weird to wait to have sex until marriage, even though I'm not religious at all? It's like, all past relationships I've had, I've been sexually abused. I really just want to find someone to take it easy with; watch movies, go out to eat, just hang out. And having sex looming over just makes me want to split. And marriage would be a fantastic deadline. Like, I wouldn't have to tell them, because if I say, "I want to wait to have sex till I get to know you better." I don't want them being like "Don't you know me well enough? Don't you trust me?" I don't want the guilt trip.
And I'm so iffy about sex, I think if I waited until we got to know eachother well enough, I would be a lot more comfortable with the idea of it. Yeah, so is it weird asking someone to wait until then, even though it has no religious drive fueling it?