Piggybacking off of the other thread . . . do you think people are made to be monogamous creatures (aka - with one other person exclusively for many, many years . . .) I've been struggling with this lately b/c I am bi and married to a guy. I have been with Dave since I was 17 and now I'm 26. But I am still really attracted to women and always wonder if I'll be able to explore that side of myself more. Maybe an open relationship is the answer but we know so many people for whom that has ruined the relationship.