i really need to vent! :evil:
ok heres the story....
ive known this guy since i was 12 years old, he is 4 years older, & we have been dating on and off since we met. we immediately fell in love with each other & he took my virginity when i was 13. i moved to utah a 1 1/2 yrs ago & just got home to seattle in march. we decided that we missed each other too much to not be together. i found out that i was pregnant & told him immediately. he started to treat me differently & was trying to manipulate me into getting an abortion. i ended up having a miscariage & he could have cared less. he wouldnt even take time from being with his "homies" to come see me & support me. i felt so alone. ever since this all happened the "love of my life" has been treating me as if i am dirt & so i decided to leave him. when i told him i wanted to break up he accused me of cheating on him with his friend & called me every name in the book along with threatening my physical & mental safety, along with my families. he also said that i was never pregnant & i was just saying that to tie him down, which is bullshit because he was there when i took the test. he has recently been having this girl call me to tell me how much he loves me, but that he wont change. i dont know what to do. i decided to call him today & said he didnt wanna talk to me because he was having a little reunion with some girls he used to hang out with. i still love him & i am in denial that this is happening.
My EX.....(trigger)
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Mon, 2004-05-31 21:25
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My EX.....(trigger)
I would get away from this guy all wants is to use you at his convencance. Stay away from him. I know its hard I have been in a simular situation and getting away from BD is the best thing I could have done for my daughter and me. You can find someone so much better who will respect you. Thats bullshit that he said you weren't pregnant after he saw the test and didn't support you when you miscarried. When I got pregnant the frist time my BD didn't support me also. PM me if you need to talk.
This does not sound like a guy who is out for your best interest. He sounds like he's just out to get what he wants. I think that you can do way better than this, that you desurve more respect than what he's giving you.