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MommyKatlin
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How much sex are you ladies having. Me and my BD have been together for 3 ( almost 4 ) years and we have always had ALOT of sex. We have sex maybe 3 or 4 times a week maybe more and we usally do it 2 or 3 times in those days. He calls me a Nympo. And i am. I love having sex with him. But only him. He is the only guy i have been with. And i couldn't see my self having that much sex with anyone else. So what about you ladies, do you have alot of sex too? Or am i adnormal?? :D

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3-4 times a week, usually. There are times when we're just too worn out from the day or have a rough week.. it can drop down to 1-2 times a week.

We just sort of go where the mood takes us.

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You're not abnormal. Everyone has different drives and nothing is odd. BD isn't living at my place, but he stays a couple nights a week... so we dont' have sex that often. But he's moving back in October, so maybe I'll get more lol...

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Yea me and Jeremy don't live together right now either. But we will shortly. So it's bound to go up even more!

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We used to have it alot too, we had it about 4-5 times a week and usually twice on those days. Now, um..about twice a week. We go up and down, this is the lowest we've been so far though. :(

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MommyKatlin wrote:
How much sex are you ladies having. Me and my BD have been together for 3 ( almost 4 ) years and we have always had ALOT of sex. We have sex maybe 3 or 4 times a week maybe more and we usally do it 2 or 3 times in those days. He calls me a Nympo. And i am. I love having sex with him. But only him. He is the only guy i have been with. And i couldn't see my self having that much sex with anyone else. So what about you ladies, do you have alot of sex too? Or am i adnormal?? :D

exactly like us...he jokes that we're like Jack Rabbits :D

--Kris

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Once i started getting fatter, my sex drive dropped drastically. I guess it was a mix of hormones, and tiredness, and feeling grosse and fat. I just never seem to want sex...we only have it like...2-3 times a week. I think it bothers BD....but there is very little that I can do about it, at this point. Owell.

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I don't really have a sex drive, so if it were up to me, I'd never initiate sex. Ever since the baby, my libido has dropped off the face of this planet. We used to have sex 4-5 times a week, but now maybe 2-3 (if he's lucky). I feel bad for the guy 'cause he's a sex fanatic! Once we get going, it's good, but if he never initiated I don't think we'd ever have sex, lol.

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ellev wrote:
I don't really have a sex drive, so if it were up to me, I'd never initiate sex. Ever since the baby, my libido has dropped off the face of this planet. We used to have sex 4-5 times a week, but now maybe 2-3 (if he's lucky). I feel bad for the guy 'cause he's a sex fanatic! Once we get going, it's good, but if he never initiated I don't think we'd ever have sex, lol.

It's rare for me to be the one to initiate. My sex drive dropped after I started on hormonal birth control.. I switched from depo to the pill, but there's been no change. It's a huge downer, because like you said, I feel bad for the BF.

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I think it has something to do with my BC, too. I've been on the patch for a year and my sex drive has slowly decreased to the point of nothing ever since. I'm going to talk with my doc about alternative BC options like IUD's and the NuvaRing which contain a lesser amount of hormones. Hopefully once I'm off this patch, I'll get my desire back. HOPEFULLY!

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It varies for us. Sometimes we have sex every day for a few weeks, and sometimes we don't have sex for more than a week. It has to do with his mood and mine, and how much stress is going on in our lives I think.

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InspireHopeDream wrote:
It varies for us. Sometimes we have sex every day for a few weeks, and sometimes we don't have sex for more than a week. It has to do with his mood and mine, and how much stress is going on in our lives I think.

That sounds like us.

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up until baby, it was quite rare to miss a day. Now, we usually go a whole week, sometimes two. I'd like to have more sex, but he doesn't seem to mind much. We're both exhausted pretty much all the time so...you know...what are you gonna do? I look forward to a time when we get more than 3 hours of sleep at a time. Maybe then we'll fuck like normal people. :roll:

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when me and bd were together, we would basically fuck every time we saw eachother. It was kinda sad really, like we had nothing better to do than fuck. Well at least it was good right? :wink: Yeah if I was having sex with someone right now, (which sucks that I'm not :( ) I would be on them like shit on velcro.