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Elli
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Haunting dreams!

Ffs, i keep having dreams that my husband is having an affair, but the thing is i can see him do it. I dont do anything but get a funny feeling in my stomache and then when i wake up i half expect not to see him laying next to me. Its really annoying me. Its haunting me i swear. I know hes faithful, if nothing else like the fact i trust him, he doesnt have time lol.

What do these annoying dreams mean??

Also, in some of the dreams i go up to the girl and go to hit her but she turns into this really fooking body builder type person and i end up feeling like ive tickled her. Its strange. Sometimes i see michael do things to her that he used to do to me..im really not enjoying these dreams.

I try to think positive b4 i go to sleep but it dont work.
They r driving me nuts.

My friend reckons it could be that coz theres a little bit of a strain in the bedroom my subconscious is trying to find reasons or something, but i think it might be that im feeling insecure about the move and nervous and on edge..you know what, i cant analyse it..can anyone here help?

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I read somewhere that when you dream about someone being unfaithful to you that actually means they are someone you can trust...Or even a best friend screwing you over or something...means the opposite. So whenever I have dreams about that sort of thing I just think of that haha.

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Hi

I have been listening to talk radio a lot lately and There was a lady who called in and said pretty much the same thing (minus the body builder tickling part). The dream expert says that is super common to have those dreams and that what it NORMALLY means is that your husband is spending too much time on something else, work, with friends, etc... and not enough time with you. It could even mean she said that you just need some time together as a couple... It works the other way too if you are dreaming that you are having an affair it normally means that YOU are spending too much time on something else...

Does this make sense??

Id look up dreams on the internet, lots of times they have meanings behind them

Hope this helps

Ashley

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I just found this online

I just found this online

" To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel some lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others.

To dream that you are committing adultery with your spouse's friend, denotes that you are feeling neglected by your spouse."
http://dreemmoods.com

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So...If you dream about your SO cheating on you and stuff, what does it mean, if you dream the opposite?!? :?

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:)

it mans that you feel guilty for neglecting youre relationship i believe, i dont know if any of this is true hehe just what ive heard:)

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Haunting dreams!

Hello! I'm from Wpg too..lol.

Oh yeah - I had a weird dream about being at my old school again? Is there a site that describes if you dream about going back to school if you already graduated?

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Kristina, that is a very common one that means you missed your past or something about it. Often it means you miss the person you were, the friends you had, the easygoing lifestyle, etc. It is common for people to dream about high school as they get older because they miss thier youth and freedom.