okay, well, i am going to be having surgery in 2-3 weeks. (waiting on the insurance company) I have been dealing with endometriosis for 5 years. probably longer, but real bad pain for 5. anyhow, so i opted to have a partial hysterectomy, i'll be keeping the good ole ovaries so i don't go through meopause. but anyways, i am totally stressing out about everything falling apart when i am recovering. its about a 9 day recovery, before i can start handling life again. which is good, cause it used to be like 5-6 weeks. but anyways, my husband totally has no idea how much stuff i do. we have our own business, and i help run that, as well as taking care of my kids, and all that comes along with that. ya know what i mean girls?? to where i feel stretched out thin. i know you all do. i have a friend that can come out and will take a week off of work and help me, and the kids, and shes a single mom, and knows her shit if you know what i mean. but on the other hand, i want my husband to see really what i do, and what its all about in my life. what would you guys do?? he says he wants to take care of me, but then i told him, good you can see what its like, and i know now because i said it, hes gonna say after that its easy. hes a big time joker. funny man. can barely get him to be serious. and i am sort of a realist.. okay so, i need some advice/ should i not stress him out too much, just let him do it half, and my friend the other half?? we also have an advertisment dropping at the same time, and that means 30 calls a day, and keeping up on them. plus the kids, school, and everything else. oh ya, including me! HE HE. so anyways, what should i do??
Little LOST ONE!
make a list of everything that needs to be done on a daily basis before you go in for surgery. have him review it and see if there's anything he needs to make sure it will get done.