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Getting hit on more than usual

I have been getting hit on alot lately, Jeremy said that is was because i had the "pregnant" glow!! That is probably it. But the other day i was walking out of the mall and this guy was yelling at me " hey, baby can i get your number before you leave" at first i wasn't sure if he was talking to me, then he kept on yelling at me, and i looked around and there was no one else in the parking lot. Well he yelled the entire time i was walking to my car, and i don't respond to men yelling at me through parking lots. So as i got closer to my car after about 3 min of walking, he yells "bitch" i was like excuse me?! sorry i didn't want to talk to a man yelling at me, when i have a boyfriend and i am pregnant with his child. Then i was walking IN the mall to talk to my old boss and group of guys were yelling at me! Then me and my sister and neice were walking to the buffet at a casnio and this random guy was walking behind us, and he mummbled something, and i didn't figure he was tlaking to me, but then he said it agian and he said "your very beutiful" i was just like thank you and kept walking and talking to reese. It was very uncomfotable! and THEN when we got to the buffet the guy who sat us made a comment about me and my sister, i didn't really understnad him. But the entire time we were there he was standing there staring at us WHILE WE WERE EATING!!! sheesh. I don't know if i should be flattered or what, but guys yelling at me is really getting on my nerves. I have been dealing with this since i was about 15 or 16 so i've gotten used to it, but it's getting old really fast now! Did anyone else go through this while pregnant??

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i got hit on when i was pregnant...haha once a guy said "yeeee haw hey there pregnant girl!" :lol: :roll: in front of my bf :shock: ......maybe its cause they know we've put out :D

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You guys are lucky!!

I have looked like a trainwreck this whole pregnancy. Sometimes, I am surprised that my SO sticks around.

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I agree that guys yelling at you is really annoying and it's completely disrespectful. I would have been so pissed if a guy called me the B word just because I wouldn't give his disrespectful ass the time of day. How rude!

As for getting hit on when pregnant...I got hit on a couple times, but as soon as they would start talking to me I would just say "I'm pregnant in case you couldn't tell" and that would usually make them go away.

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Before I was pregnant, guys used to hit on me all the time.

Honking there horns, pulling over and trying to talk to me....I dont know, but personally, I HATED it. Like it was getting to the point where I couldnt sit in a coffee shop by myself to enjoy a coffee and the paper before work, without havign to deal with a bunch of idiots talking about me, trying to get my attention ect. I dont know WHAT guys are thinking. That if they honk there horns, I am going to stop my life, get into the car, and sleep with them??? Or that them harassing me will get them anywhere. All attention from guys liek that, for me personally is VERY unwanted. Maybe i am just a freak or something, but i hate it.

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i used to get the honking horns and guys hitting on me too

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i noticed at the beginning of pregnancy i was getting hit on too, especially since my breasts had gotten bigger, which sadly attracted more attention than anything. However as I'm farther along, the belly in the front keeps the catcalls down to a minimum :lol:

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I got hit on all the time and still do. My BD just jokes that they know they can't get me pregnant so thats why they're hitting on hit.

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I got hit on all the time and still do. My BD just jokes that they know they can't get me pregnant so thats why they're hitting on me.